Your standard is not even par up to mine. I have high standards than you do.
That is bragging and bragging is awful to see and annoying to hear.
Or go all,
I am not close to being like you. You're so smart and I feel ashamed of being here sitting with you, being friends with you.
Nobody likes a lousy Miss/Mister-Whine-A-Lot.
Some people like to bring down others while some other likes to bring themselves down in front of their friends. Pompously bragging or pathetic-ly giving excuses of how your life isn't the same as others. I don't get either ways.
You made your choice of how you want to lead your life and suddenly you whine about it and making people tired of hearing you bicker backer about how WRONG your choice were. Its exhausting.
STOP WOBBLING. You WOBBLE WOBBLE a lot!